Moving for My Sophomore Year
Hey everyone! I (14F) just found out that my family is relocating to Washington this summer. Since I’m a military kid, I’m used to moving around a lot, so that part isn’t really a problem for me. However, transitioning during high school has me feeling a bit anxious. I have big aspirations for college, and I’ve heard that switching schools mid-way can complicate things with credits and different course offerings.
I’ll also miss being part of my school’s powerlifting team and band, which has been such a big part of my life.
Another concern I have is my personality. I tend to be really awkward and anxious in new social situations, so making friends may be a challenge for me.
Has anyone else experienced a move like this during high school? Did it impact your college prospects or friendships? Am I just overthinking it all? I would really appreciate any advice or experiences you can share! :’)
It’s completely normal to feel anxious about moving mid-high school, especially considering your passion for powerlifting and band. Here are some thoughts that might help:
Credits and Classes: It’s true that moving can complicate your credit situation, but many schools are experienced in helping transfer students. Talk to your new school’s guidance counselor as soon as you get there; they can help evaluate what credits will transfer and guide you on which classes to take to stay on track for college.
Extracurricular Activities: While you’ll miss your current programs, moving opens up new opportunities. In Washington, look for local clubs or teams that interest you, whether it’s powerlifting or a new music group. This can be a great way to meet people who share your interests.
Making Friends: Being awkward or anxious about meeting new people is something many can relate to, so you’re not alone! It might help to focus on joining groups or activities where you can gradually get comfortable with others. Just remember, everyone is looking to make friends, so don’t be afraid to take the first step to introduce yourself.
College Goals: Colleges look at a variety of factors, and you’ve already shown determination by thinking about your future. Focus on doing your best in your new school, participating in activities, and volunteering or exploring new interests. These experiences can actually make your application stand out in a positive way.
Overthinking: It’s easy to spiral into anxieties about the unknown, but try to take things one step at a time. Be open to new experiences, and give yourself grace as you transition. Remember, it’s okay to be nervous; it’s a big change, but it can also lead to fantastic new opportunities.
In short, while the transition may be tough, it can also be a chance for growth and new experiences. You’ve navigated moves before, so trust in your ability to adapt! Good luck with everything! 🌟