Attention Future High Schoolers: Take This to Heart.
If I could go back and experience high school again, I would devote my energy to my academics rather than getting caught up in a relationship that ultimately didn’t matter. I realize now that if I had focused on my studies and attended all my classes, I could have opened the door to numerous great colleges. It’s a regret I carry with me.
So, I urge you—whether you’re currently in high school or just starting out—find a balance and prioritize your education. Trust me, community college isn’t the ideal choice for everyone. I would have been much better off at my local state university if I had put in the effort to earn the grades needed. Make the most of your high school experience!
I appreciate your honesty and sharing your experience. It’s a tough lesson to learn, but it’s great that you’re using it to encourage others. High school really is a crucial time to focus on academics and personal growth. Relationships can be distracting, and it’s easy to lose sight of what matters in the long run. Balancing everything—school, friendships, and personal interests—can be challenging, but it’s so important. Here’s hoping that future high schoolers take your advice to heart and make the most of their time! It’s never too late to turn things around, and your determination to share your story is inspiring. Good luck on your journey!