Subject: Creeped Out đ
đ„ If youâve seen this before, it was on r/sgexams before it got taken down!
Hey everyone! A few days ago, I shared my concerns about my future after getting a disappointing score on my A-levels. I’ve received a lot of support and helpful advice, which Iâm really grateful for! However, thereâs this one person I spoke to on Telegram (definitely a bad idea to share my handle) and theyâre seriously giving me the creeps.
I noticed they posted something about meritocracy in university communities and they keep insisting I send them a picture of myself.
EDIT: Oh, and they casually mentioned wanting to share my dorm room if I get into university. đ
First of all, I might be a little insecure about my looks. Secondly, why is this person so pushy? đ Iâve tried making excuses about not wanting to share pictures, and theyâve asked for my school photo or even suggested a video call. đ„
Should I just block them and hope they donât track me down? đ
Just a bit of background: I think heâs a 22-year-old studying computer science at NTU, doesnât live in a dorm, and recently broke up with his girlfriend. đ„
P.S. Iâve blocked his account and Iâm really hoping he doesnât find out about this. DM me if you want to know his handle! HAHAHA
It sounds like youâre in a really uncomfortable situation, and your feelings are totally valid. If he’s making you feel uneasy and pushing boundaries, it’s definitely time to prioritize your safety and comfort. Blocking him was a good first step!
You shouldnât feel pressured to share personal information or photos if youâre not comfortable, and asking to share a dorm room so soon is definitely crossing a line. It’s also concerning that he continued to insist on video calls and photos after you expressed your hesitation.
If youâre worried he might find you, consider tightening your privacy settings on social media and be cautious about sharing any personal details online. Trust your instinctsâif something feels off, donât hesitate to block or report him if necessary. Your well-being is what matters most!
Stay safe, and if you need support, talk to someone you trust about whatâs going on. Youâre not alone in this!